Tricks for feeding my picky 3 year old?

he is soooo picky. this is the list of things that he will eat, he loves cheerio's, some times yogurt, oatmeal with cinnamon, pancakes with just a little butter, he hates the syrup because it makes him sticky, granola bars,bananas, apples, chicken, hot dogs, macaroni and cheese, pizza, baked fries, milk, apple/grape juice, fruitables juice sometimes oatmeal cookies, spaghetti with meatballs, grilled cheese with ham or turkey on it, pudding, and he will eat chips if i let him have them, but i don't very often, oh and he loves teddy grahams and wheat thin crackers... as you can see, he's very picky, and other then the spaghetti sauce and the fries, he gets no vegetables at all. i do serve him veggies and fruits when we eat them, but he just won't eat them. what i am trying to do is find other ways to get more vegetables in to him. sooo I was wondering, i know they make pasta that is made from vegetables, but does anyone know if they make them in a macaroni form because i tried the cork screw noodles and for some reason he won't eat them, but i believe he would eat them if it was in macaroni form. also what are some other tricks that i could use to get him more interested in vegetables? i've already tried putting them in things like shredding carrots and putting it in the mac and cheese, and i've also tried serving raw veggies with ranch dip and cheese dip. nothing seems to work. anybody else got some ideas? feeding him is so difficult, and i also have a 1 year old who seems to be starting wanting to do everything that big brother does. he started out a great eater but now seems to only eat the things that brother does, and i need that to change. i don't think i can handle 2 picky eaters... thanks!